As I get older, I started to enjoy the stability, balance and grounding in my single life. That’s why I’ve been traveling alone.
- The relationship between thoughts and reality:
Your primary thoughts become your reality.
After being in a few crazy relationships, I realized that I didn’t even have the bandwidth to do anything else when I was in a relationship like that.
The anxiety became dominant and I couldn’t even focus on my career or other goals in life.
That’s why I became single again.
I really must get more grounded, so I decided to travel alone.
Don’t get me wrong. I am definitely not saying relationships are bad.
Actually, I still think relationships can be amazing.
I still believe in love.
I’m just saying right now I choose to be single – I want to travel alone now.
I believe that when the time is right, I will be in a relationship in the future.
- The power of calmness:
There is a difference between lack of experience and lack of intelligence.
I have to say that I was not experienced when I was younger, but I was always smart.
That’s why I ended toxic relationships as soon as possible.
Now I really enjoy the normality and calmness in my life.
Now I can have my phone in the kitchen all night without worrying about social media; meanwhile, I can do something mindful and chill with myself without having anything exciting going on.
Traveling alone gives me the opportunity to take a pause from modern technology and a large amount of workload as well.
At last, I can have some time for proper me time.
I’m pretty sure when I slowly reintroduce stuff to my life, I will be able to do it gradually and mindfully. Then I’ll be ready for the right relationship.
“The person that I marry will have to add tremendous value to my life in order to get a space in my fabulous life. That means now my standards are higher and I don’t settle for less. I believe that when I allow life to unfold in front of me, life won’t disappoint me because I trust the universe.”
