Angus broke up with his girlfriend at the end of last year. Two months ago, he asked me how to get over the breakup. Because he really likes my advice and has given me the permission to share my advice for him here, today you are in for a treat (no matter whether you’ve had a breakup or not).
- Enjoy the new freedom.
Although Angus is sad because of the breakup, he actually understands that the breakup happened for a reason. That relationship is over, and he has to accept this fact.
“What do you always want to do but haven’t done yet?” I ask Angus.
“I always want to go to Europe and have an overseas trip alone,” says Angus, “I need some me time.”
“Do it now.” I ask Angus to take action, “Spend 20 days in Europe and complete this challenge – You will approach 3 women every day – that’s your 20-day challenge. I’m sure you will improve your social skills!”
So, Angus booked an overseas trip immediately and went to Europe by himself. He visited different countries and experienced various cultures. He finds the European dating climate quite fascinating because it’s different from what he has experienced in the United States: European women are more open-minded and relaxed; they feel less entitled, and they can take criticism pretty well. These qualities are not common in women from English-speaking countries. Now Angus is convinced – Eastern European women are objectively better.
- Angus’s new relationship:
When Angus started approaching women, he wasn’t very good at this, so he spoke to me on the phone for further advice.
After implementing my dating advice, his dating skills have improved. On Day 17, he approached a woman in Eastern Europe, and she fell in love with him. Now Angus is in a new relationship with an Eastern European lady who admires, respects, and loves him truly, madly, deeply.
Clearly, Angus’s overseas trip is totally worthwhile.
In fact, you don’t necessarily need to have a breakup in order to experiment with this challenge – if you are a single guy looking for a serious relationship, in the next 20 days, I’d like you to approach three women each day and see what happens. Your results might surprise you because there are so many single women who are also looking for real love & they want to be approached by men like you.
“Your ideal partner is also looking for you. You just need to take action and find her.”
